i think my perfect relationship would be soft. soft and also firm. soft love, affectionate caresses, sweet words and even sweeter moments and dates. but the love would also be firm; regular affirmations, through the good and the bad, communicative, vibrant and realistic. love is not perfect, and it’s not always seamless and smooth. but i want to have a reason to always want my person, and they for me. i want an intentional, real, deep relationship where we can grow together through both the pleasant and unpleasant patches.